Not
really, okay... but count
up your elements. Look for your inferior function (is it air, water, fire
or earth?)
Very often (but, of course, not always) you'll end up finding yourself
attracted to those folks with lots of energy in your weakest element(s)...
It's more of the old "opposites attract" thing.
And
again, I was just messing around with you... it's not necessarily "looking
for love in all the wrong places." It's actually a fairly common phenomenon;
and astrologers come across it all the time when doing chart comparisons
for folks (especially if they married while still young). It can, in fact,
very often "work" quite well.
Like
they say... if it ain't broke, don't fix it...