| "In
the long run, the Moon cannot be ignored: needs too long denied,
feelings too long buried, insecurities perpetually pushed
aside, all eventually fester and can ultimately build us to
a kind of crisis (we can) describe as lunar burnout. Essentially
this is a kind of breakdown in which you are so drained from
giving to others and ignoring your own needs that life's demands
become too much for you."
Donna
Cunningham from "Moon Signs - The Key To Your Inner Life"
The
Moon
The
Moon is all about the "unconscious," the
past, memories, and the emotions those
memories evoke... The
Moon (its positioning and Zodiac Sign placement in the birth
chart) points to how we instinctually go about getting the
emotional security we need in order to feel safe...
The
birth chart Moon is "where we go" when feeling frightened
and alone...
It's
the Mother and Child Reunion
The
Moon is about emotional nurturance and the
mysterious, archetypal bond and connection between
"Mother
and the Child..."
The
very image of "Mother"
infers
the existence of "the
Child..." And, likewise... The
image of "the
Child" infers
the existence of "the
Mother..."
At
Birth
Human infants are quite different from almost all of the other
infants in the animal kingdom. For
all intents and purposes we humans are born quite prematurely.
At
birth (and then continuing on for several years) -
we're incredibly vulnerable and dependent upon mother (or
a suitable alternate mother figure) for our very survival
on the planet. And
as newborn infants (regardless
of whether we be male or female)
Mom
was the first great love affair
of our lives...
As
newborn infants, we learn very quickly (and
adapt to) what's needed to keep Mommy contented,
happy and pleased. (To
be sure, there's a bit of a two way street here...)
As
newborn infants, we had no clue there was an existence that
might be somehow separate and
apart from our experience of Mom... And
we somehow instinctively knew our very survival depended
on Mom and her presence in our life... And
perish the thought during those times when
Mom left the room... then
our entire infant world fell apart!
Birth
Moon Placement
The particular positioning and sign placement of our birth
Moon reflects to a large degree: just
exactly how well our love affair with
mom went...
The
Moon reflects the way we individually perceived of and experienced
our human mother (or alternative mother figure) especially
during our first year of life and then while growing up...
Moon Mom in
the Eye of the Beholder
I place emphasis on the Moon
being the way we "individually perceived of and experienced"
our human mothers. You
see... the way we each perceived of "mother" -
may
(or may not) have been all that objectively
"reality based."
The
way we perceived of "mother" may
not have been anything like our real,
flesh and blood mother... However,
the way we perceived "mother" is subjectively real
in that: it
is how we personally experienced and
believed our mother to be...
Our
perception is our reality. As
an adult, haven't you ever had the experience of talking to
a brother or sister about "Mom" - and suddenly the
person they're talking on about and describing as "their mother"
is someone you don't readily remember or recognize as being
your mother?
Greatly
oversimplifying
all of this...
We
internalize our early experience of "mother" - and
as adults we continue to instinctually nurture ourselves in
the very same ways that made us feel
loved
comforted
and
nurtured
first
in
the womb, then as infants, and
finally as young children.
And like it or not...
Much
of what the various personality theorists have to say (regarding
the significance of early nurturing experiences being critical
to our sense of mental/emotional well-being as adults) is
true.
And
the particular positioning and sign placement of our birth
Moon reflects (and gives clues to) the challenges we all face
as adults in getting the emotional security needs of our inner
child met. And
just how well the love affair with Mom went - often has long
lasting "unconscious" effects on our ability as adults to
form long lasting, mutually satisfying relationships/love
affairs.
Frightening
thought, eh?

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