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Dr
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What
Is A Soul Mate?
originally
written in 1997 (and repeatedly revised)
"The
heart has its own reasons that the mind cannot
comprehend..." Plato
Welcome
to "The Zodiac & Soul Mates!" I'm
your astrologer host, Dr Z... and it would appear that you've just now
stumbled into an extremely crowded room at The Zodiac Master.
Yep!
"The Zodiac & Soul Mates" is one of the most visited sections at the
Zodiac Master.
So...
please mind your manners, give everyone a little elbow room, and try not
to unnecessarily jostle any other web surfers while you're here.
Why
that crowded?
"Relationship" and/or finding one's "soul mate" has become one of
the top (if not the most important) guiding beliefs of our day and time!
This
modern day quest of finding the "perfect relationship" has taken on mythic,
larger-than-life, archetypal proportions!
Yep!
Psychotherapists (and astrologers) develop a distinctive
nervous twitch whenever a client excitedly announces that they've
finally found their soul mate!
Yep!
We all seem to get a little crazy over the subject... as "relationship"
and finding the "right person" with whom we are destined to share our
life journey has now seemingly become the 20th and 21st Century equivalent
of the medieval Search for the Holy Grail...
"If
we don't have a primary relationship, we live haunted with self-doubt,
questioning whether we are capable of intimacy and commitment, even
questioning the value of life without it. We
yearn for the sacred marriage, the union of souls that will endure the
passage of time. We long for a partner who offers a shady oasis in a
hot, dry world; a mate who provides a refuge of acceptance and understanding.
We dream about the sweetness of love and speak constantly to friends
about the urgency of the quest...."
Short
excerpt from Romancing The Shadow by Connie Zweig and Steve Wolf
And yet it often seems... the harder we search for this much sought after,
much desired union of souls - the more elusive and frustrating our quest
becomes.
Questions
-
What
in the heck is a soul mate?
-
What
does a soul mate look like?
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Would
ya even know a soul mate if ya saw one?
-
And
does astrology give any possible clues as to who might "feel" like
a soul mate?
Okay...
we'll get back to most of this in minute... but first, what's the story
behind soul mates? And who is it that came up with the idea?
Split
Aparts
The archetypal concept of soul mates is timeless and has probably
existed for as long as humanity has…
However,
the one individual most rightly credited with the concept of soul mates
in the Western World is the ancient Greek philosopher, Plato (427 BC –
348/347 BC)...
According
to Plato's creation story as contained in the Symposium: In the
beginning there was only one human. And this human was "created perfection."
The
rather odd thing was that this first "created perfection" human had all
the "necessary" male parts, as well as having all the "necessary" female
parts (if you get my drift). However,
this perfect human (with all of the "necessary" parts) was then tragically
split apart – and, since that time, the two halves (the male parts and
the female parts) have been forever searching for one another in order
to join together and regain their sense of original created wholeness.
"Each
of us when separated, having one side only... is but indenture of a
man, and he is always looking for his other half." Plato from the
Symposium
That,
my friend, is the bona fide traditional Western tradition behind the concept
of soul mates… two halves looking to be made whole… (and yes, I know that's
not a popular view of "healthy relationships" these days.)
And
yes, before you write in attempting to educate me on the matter, I realize
there are several rather popular "New Age" theories (such as
twin souls and twin flames) floating around out there that are much more
complex in nature and allegedly more ancient. (I suppose when
you're channeling material you can claim any date that you want.)
More
Current Definitions
Here are a couple of more current working definitions of soul mates that
I especially like and find useful.
"A
soul mate is someone to whom we feel profoundly connected, as though
the communicating and communing that take place between us were not
the product of intentional efforts, but rather a divine grace. This
kind of relationship is so important to the soul that many have said
there is nothing more precious in life." Thomas Moore Soul
Mates (Buy
it now at Amazon.com)
And...
"As
in a spiritual tradition, we are called on in the new 'tradition of
two' to do 'soulwork' - to expand our souls, heal our past wounds, and
evolve as humans... How do you know when you're with a soul mate? It's
not a matter of magic. You know you're with a soul mate when you are
both doing your soulwork...
Unfortunately,
many potential soulmates get lost because they don't know how to do
their soulwork together. They may linger in the popular definition,
where upset feelings shouldn't happen, where upset is a bad sign. This
explains why so many people feel they have been with a soul mate - but
then, somehow, lost them." John and Bonney Grey, Becoming Soulmates
Using
these working definitions for soul mate, it definitely sounds as if we
might actually encounter more than one soul mate connection during a single
lifetime?
Typically...
we often do...
Zodiac
Clues?
So... I suppose that the penultimate question is: does astrology happen
to offer up any clues in the birth chart that might point to why you experience
this sort of profound soul mate feeling connection with another person
or persons?
Maybe...
Zodiac
Sun Sign Compatibility?
Unfortunately, (despite what you've previously heard to the contrary)
the use of simple Zodiac Sun Sign comparisons can only render up partial,
incomplete answers to the question of who might "feel" like a soul mate...
and/or who might "feel" like a person with whom you share "karmic
soul bonds"...
Zodiac
Sun Sign comparisons are potentially a fine (but small) step in the right
direction... but, let's get real... as not every match between a Sun Sign
Gemini and a Sun Sign Libra is going to end up feeling like a soul mate
connection... you'd have a heck of a lot of soul mates out there if it
did...
Soul
Bond Connection Clues
Astrological soul bond connection clues reflect inner-potentials of
inexplicable (irrational) feelings related to a sense of fatedness, kinship,
karma, destiny, and/or simply deep emotional connection between the two
people involved.
And
perhaps, at this point, a couple of rather unpopular cautions are necessary...
because experiencing a deep, soul bond connection with another
person:
-
is
not a guarantee of an easy, smooth relationship or connection
with that other person...
-
is not a guarantee that the other person will be with you for
the rest of this present incarnation on planet Earth.
As
I was so aptly reminded, astrologer Steven Forrest has said (something
to the effect) that sometimes soul mates kill each other... (Been there,
done that...)
Yikes!
That wasn't at all what you wanted to hear, was it? You're hoping (hope
against hope) for a romantic, take my breath away, happily ever after,
and pain-free solution to the penultimate question of finding your soul
mate.
Dr
Z's Top Six Astrology Soul Mate Clues
On the next page, we're going to cross over into an area of astrology
called Synastry... Synastry is the comparison of "cross aspects" between
the birth charts of two people.
Unfortunately,
synastry (birth chart comparison) calls for going well beyond Zodiac Sun
Sign comparison and having at least a wee bit of previous knowledge about
astrology and the comparison of cross aspects between charts. So this
is obviously where a lot of folks are likely going to choose to gracefully
bow out...
But
novices, be brave and momentarily come along for the ride! At the very
least, you'll be able to gain a clearer picture of some of the intricate
and complex details that we wild-eyed astrologers like to utilize when
performing birth chart comparisons... it's a big part of why folks still
willingly make that long, arduous trek to visit with a local astrologer,
and then part with a few of their hard-earned "buckolas."
Paul
and Linda McCartney
For many (of my now salt and pepper haired generation), Paul and Linda
McCartney represented lovers who'd somehow managed to "get it right,"
during a rather turbulent period of history when so seemingly few of us
were (and are) able to "get it right."
If
these wonderful, gracious lovers, Paul (Gemini) and Linda (Libra) McCartney,
weren't soul mates - then I have nary an earthly clue about who might
be...
So
- having previously written the following section
containing my Top Six Soul Mate Clues - I finally decided to put
my Top Six Soul Mate Clues up against the ultimate soul mate test, where
the rubber meets the road...
>>
Continue on to Part II of The Zodiac & Soul Mates:
Dr
Z's Top Six Soul Mate Clues Featuring Paul and Linda McCartney
Synastry Comparisons of the Top Six Soul Mate Clues.
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